Cheating among couples have been happening allot among my friends especially, its either the girl cheat on the guy or the guy cheats on the girl, but why ?? I would really like to know why do people cheat on each other * i don't have the guts to go ask my friends that*
well i actually think cheating occurs because
(1)When you're you don't have the guts or heart to break up with their partner to be with someone else.
Some couples tend to have a dominant one in the relationship, and these days the girls seems to be the dominant one, and guys tend to be "demure" or the quiet one in the relationship *from what i have seen* and so these guys have more of a fear in their girlfriends and lesser love for them, and so as this goes on, the guys tend to "wonder off" to get that love and affection that their not getting and when they finally find the ONE, they would be too afraid to break up with the girlfriend to be with the ONE thy love.
(2) Bored
Some people who are in a relationship for a long period of time may find themselves feeling bored even of they still love and have feelings for each other. As I know, its only the beginning part of the relationship that would be the fun part but once you move on to being in a serious relationship you get bored and that's when they start to find new exciting people to be with without the other significant one knowing, BUT they don't let the significant one go.
(3) Lack of Attention
Some people tend to give more priority and attention to other people than their partners, and they are never there when they need someone. So once they are tired of waiting for that much needed attention these people tend to lean to whoever that's willing to give them the attention while keeping the other partner in the dark.
I could only come up with these reasons which I could come up with, I know there is more reasons out there that i cant figure but i will :)
well i actually think cheating occurs because
(1)When you're you don't have the guts or heart to break up with their partner to be with someone else.
Some couples tend to have a dominant one in the relationship, and these days the girls seems to be the dominant one, and guys tend to be "demure" or the quiet one in the relationship *from what i have seen* and so these guys have more of a fear in their girlfriends and lesser love for them, and so as this goes on, the guys tend to "wonder off" to get that love and affection that their not getting and when they finally find the ONE, they would be too afraid to break up with the girlfriend to be with the ONE thy love.
(2) Bored
Some people who are in a relationship for a long period of time may find themselves feeling bored even of they still love and have feelings for each other. As I know, its only the beginning part of the relationship that would be the fun part but once you move on to being in a serious relationship you get bored and that's when they start to find new exciting people to be with without the other significant one knowing, BUT they don't let the significant one go.
(3) Lack of Attention
Some people tend to give more priority and attention to other people than their partners, and they are never there when they need someone. So once they are tired of waiting for that much needed attention these people tend to lean to whoever that's willing to give them the attention while keeping the other partner in the dark.
I could only come up with these reasons which I could come up with, I know there is more reasons out there that i cant figure but i will :)
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